Why Biblical Counseling?
By Dr. W. P. Abercrombie
Research tells us that the national divorce
rate in the United States is rapidly approaching fifty-percent.
Today approximately forty-percent of America’s children are raised in a single
parent home. A quick review of the news reveals that the institution
of marriage is eroding into a non-descript mass of unions, associations,
and partnerships with no respect for God’s order and
plan for humankind.
Yet while we are disturbed by the condition of the world, and
to some degree expect ungodly choices by those who are without
salvation and the workings of the Holy Spirit, we must take notice
of these disturbing trends and their infiltration of the Church.
As an example, the divorce rate among professed born-again Christians
is alarmingly similar to that of the general population. According
to Barna Research Group (www.barna.org),
about half of new Christian marriages will end in divorce.
But there is more…
- Approximately one-third of professed Christians now live
together before marriage
- Seventy-percent of pastors report a history of significant
marital stress
- Forty-percent of ministers admit to some form of extra-marital
involvement during the course of their ministry
- Depression, anxiety, suicide, alcoholism, and the use of
psychiatric medications are common and increasing in their
occurrence within the Church
Often Christians are alarmed to see these statistics. But when
we consider our personal circle of relationships (family, friends,
co-workers, church family, etc.), we realize that these and other
issues, are all around us. Christians and non-believers alike
are suffering and far too often are reaching for the wrong solutions
from the wrong resources.
In a world of immediacy, we have welcomed the friendly and
reasonable teachings of Humanistic Psychology into our
minds, hearts, homes, and churches. Christians and non-Christians
alike are drawn to the permissive mantra of secularism that
encourages us to respond to our emotions, needs, and personal
agendas without guilt or conviction, placing our impulses
ahead of God’s teachings and the needs of others. But
the Apostle Paul wrote about the inherent danger found in
earthly solutions in 1 Corinthians:
For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God… (1
Corinthians 3:19a).
Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness
of God is stronger than men (1 Corinthians 1:25).
Taking Paul’s warning to heart, the true biblical counselor
must rely upon the suffiency of God’s Word and its capacity
to address all aspects of life, along with the inner workings
of the Holy Spirit, as the core features of any counseling or
change process. The apostle Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 3:16-17:
All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable
for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in
righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly
equipped for every good work.
Therefore, any position of support, counsel, training, discipline,
or teaching should be grounded in the inspired Word
of God. The Scriptures provide a template that defines normal and abnormal. Humans
operate and function at their optimum when they are aligned
with God’s principles of order and structure. Anything
outside His order places us in discord with the Holy Spirit
and will produce psychological, relational, and spiritual consequences.
Biblical Counseling then, is a process of
realignment: bringing those aspects of life that have fallen
outside God’s proposed
boundaries, into agreement with His teachings, commands, callings,
principles, and promises. It is impossible to counsel someone
into healthy alignment when using the template of the
world. As a result, a counselor must become intimately knowledgeable
and responsive to the Word of God and to the leading of the Holy
Spirit, if he/she is to be effective in the delivery of godly
care.
Biblical Counseling answers the scriptural mandate offered
in Ephesians 4:
…that we should no longer be children, tossed to and
fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery
of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but,
speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him
who is the head--Christ— (vv. 14-15).
As the Body of Christ, we bear the responsibility of building
up one another, perfecting and maturing our faith, so that we
are not vulnerable to the seductive and harmful teachings of
the world that so quickly lead us astray. Truth in love fortifies
and protects the individual and his/her family by providing
God’s
plan and order for living a life of peace. God’s peace
is one of correct doctrine, stable unchanging positions, truth
that is clear and direct, found in His written Word, and then
enacted through the Holy Spirit.
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Copyright © 2006 Dr. W. P. "Ab" Abercrombie
and Dr. Kerry L. Skinner